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30 January 2006

Are we juz frens...

lemme tell a tale...

once a gal n a guy become frens... they chat, talk on fone n dcide to go out together... they found dat they do like each other's company.. they become close, but they r still frens... few years when by.. the gal got a bf, the guy did too... then the gal was single again, so was the guy... n they still keep in contact...

the guy was very concern of the gal... he bought her gifts, he called everyday... he nvr forgets to brought her sumting whenever he went overseas.. he noes abt her likes, her dislikes... he likes to bring her out, n always brought her sumwhere special... when she say she wan icecream, n she was thinkin of the icecream seller along the road, he brought her to andersen's instead.. when she say she feel like having chicken for dinner, n she was thinkin of kfc, he brought her to kenny rogers instead.. he noes she like to watch theatres sumtimes, so he treat her to some... he noes she likes to keep HRC shotglasses, so he didnt fail to find for her whenever he went overseas...

the gal was happy to hv a fren like him... she feel comfy chatting wif him, goin out n jus hv fun together... he is a fren she tot was priceless.... over the years, although they do get drifted for a while, things was ok between them... she buys him dinner sumtimes, cos she feel uncomfy if he was the one whos always paying... she treat him to movies, it seems the normal thing to do... she gave him advices on work, frens, families... she become the listening ear whenever he needs one...

as time goes by, the guy develop a deep feeling towards the gal... he become more concern abt her well being... he did pour out his feelings to the gal, knowing he wont get the same feelings back... the gal was taken aback... she noe try as she might she can nvr treat him more than dat... she xplain to him n make him understand... n he did, he say he did understand, but he say he will always treat her the same... time goes by again, n the gal dun feel comfy, noeing the feeling the guy had, how he treat her... she cannot treat the same way he did, cos she is scared she will be sending the wrong signal or will end up leading him on... so sumtimes she try to back herself a bit, try to distance herself... but her intention make the guy disappointed in her.. he blames her for not being there when needed... when she xplain her actions, he say he tot she is okay wif this kind of relationship...

n the gal wonders now, wat kind of relationship is this? if they r frens, as wat he claims they r, why the xtra attention? she become confused... is she goin to go thru dis... or should she jus distance herself... she scared she might be leading him on.. but if she distance herself, she will lose a fren whom she felt close wif... n for her to accept him as more than frens, she cant.. she noe he is so nice to her, but try as she might, she nvr had a deep feeling towards him...

wat can she do now...

~ peace : love : empathy ~