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20 June 2006

Is Marriage A Choice...?

marriage ... marriage ... marriage ...
this word has been in my head for the last few days... now dun say dat im the 'minah kawin-kawin' type... its jus that it has become an evryday topic from almost everyone i bumped into the last few days... it does gets into my nerves sumtimes... but sumtimes it does keeps me wondering...

had a talk wif my elder sis last week... she was like saying when will i settle down, u noe, im not getting any younger by the days... she was like saying sumtimes marrying sumone doesnt mean u hv to be 100% compatible, or jus becos of the term 'love', although that helps... n it keeps me thingkin, if i m getting married to sumone, wat do i reali look for? looks? compatibility? personality or character? chemistry? stability? materials? status? my sis was like saying stability is very important, sumtimes it realy determines the future happiness that we r so desperate to get... i dunno, to me right now, compatibility or rather how we get along n communicate is the most important...

my sis suggest me to go n concentrate on jus one, n shut the rest... she suggest me to concentrate on this one guy who has a stable job, a car, a bike, a house of his own... the plus point is, to her, the guy wan to be wif me, had already tried to propose to me... she say that at least it will guarantee a bright future... wat she missed out is communication... wat if it breaks down real bad after marriage? n we walk around the same house like zombies, not talking or spending time much wif each other...

n i do admit im kinda goin out wif sumone right now... but sriusly, i dun reali think of marriage or dat kinda commitment wif him... in communication, i think we 'click' well, we had our fun, we share our sorrows n bla bla bla.. stability? dat has yet to be known... i dun reali know if i will ever feel secured wif him... i guess mayb dats one thing dat has kept me a bit distant from him...

PS : a penny for your thoughts...

~ peace : love : empathy ~