Online Flings...

something happen recently... which i noticed n observed...
in this modern n hi-tech kind of life, one cant help being online in the internet.. face it, even kids as little as age 7 do noe how to browse websites... n becos of dis advanced thing, we r able to get in touch wif ppl, those dat we've lost touch, n those we've jus got to noe... theres lots of channel dat we can go to for instant msging, making frenz n bla bla bla... the qs is, where do we draw the limit line?

few i noe who hv had flings online, although they do hv real rships in real life... mayb ppl started saying oh dat doesnt count, its online anyway, no more than dat.. but who can confirm it? being humans, we do hv desires, n i always believe dat flings online can become real, when one advances from pc to phone to meetups... n so wat would dat be then? isnt dat the same as cheating ur partner? one can say its curiousity at its best... jus wanna noe who i been chatting wif, who i been talkin wif...

n yea, seen a few too, who had dozens of frens in their list, n if its a guy, the list will b all galz... n vice versa... n yea, have heard of some maniacs using online to jus 'fish' for gals for funtimes and jus plain gone...

anyway, back to online flings... wat would b the limit when one realises dat things r getting too far... dat it can b considered as cheating? n wat would u do if u find ur partner doing dat? would u jus shrug n say hey its the world today, jus dun get physical.. or u jus gonna get hysterical n demand an xplanation? i mean, its back to the same thing right? getting to noe new galz/guyz when u r having a rship... i noe ppl will argue but its online wat, wats the big deal... but isnt it the same damn thing?

online : u browse profiles, choose which one u r interested at, msg the person, start a conversation, n who noes where it leads to...
real-life : u look at ppl ard you, u see one who u like, u ask the person or ur fren help u, u start xchanging numbers n start conversation, n bla bla bla...

to me, i guess the bottom line is, yea u do hv flings, online or not... n if u stil deny n tryin to say u do noe ur limits, plz la.. thats lame n show wat an asshole u r... n if u stil do search n browse for new opposite acquaintances, i guess u shld take a 2nd look at ur own rship... mayb theres no more sizzles, or no more love, or not enuff attractions anymore dat resulted in u searching for better mates... so, does dat mean hold on to something n let go when the time is right? so when is it right? when u get a better replacement? if dats how u do things, then its damn pathetic...

i think i will stop now b4 i get too caught up in this topic... by the way, u owe me a penny for my thoughts...